How should you view adoption?
One thing you must understand about adoption is that it is not a pet store. You do not have the right to express why yoyo thought a certain child would be better than others. Now I do understand that you have the legal right to pick the child you think is the strongest, smartest, or prettiest however as a human you have the responsibility to make all the children feel like they had an equal chance. Also there is nothing wrong with wanting to have a child that looks like you that is only natural but should not make the other feel like they are worth less because you didn’t want them.
1. Pro life or Anti-Choice Groups
Now there are many reason why certain people choose to have abortions. Sadly, one of those reasons are because they truly believe they won’t have the chance to have a family. As a person who has watched several debates on abortion the number one thing you always hear is that there are plenty of parents waiting to adopt or that they are taking away their chance to have a family. As of 2016 according to the Children’s Bureau there were 117,794 children waiting to be adopted. Saying that some one will adopt that child when there is no way to guarantee this will happen is almost evil. Could you picture going to any of these children and telling them there are families waiting to adopt but for some reason you just got left behind. If people truly want to help prevent abortions then you must firth make sure the children here now get a chance to have a family.
Now there are a few churches that take in orphans but that is the problem, why is it only a few? There is not a single Christian pastor alive that will deny that the bible tell us to love each other equally. If what they say is true then almost every church in America should be a home for these lost children. Go to your local church and ask them why you do not offer such services. Churches are suppose to show the way when their are children believing they are alone in this world. Just think about that the next time you see a mega- pastor.
Yes, this does deserve a separate category. Why, because one is about an organization and this will focus on the individual. Again, you will not find a Christian that will flat out deny that they are suppose to love everyone. Obviously humans are not perfect, we make mistakes everyday but if this person proclaims to be Christian and they are in their adult years and by this I mean 30 and up they should ne the frontlines when it comes to adoptions. There are over millions of Christians in the U.S. About three-quarters of Americas identity as Christian which means there is more than enough to adopt every child in America.
4. Same Sex Adoption
Sadly, there are people who believe that a child is better off not having a family than to be with a couple of the same sex. I did not learn about this until recently and I still find it hard to believe that their are people out there purposely stopping a child from getting a home. If you are a same sex couple you probably know already what states are trying to prevent the paperwork of adoption even though it is legal in all 50 states. America government is not doing what is best for the children and that needs to stop.
5. Everybody else with a Good Heart
There are just some people that can not be parents. There are parents right now that shouldn’t be parents. That is the whole reason why we have his system. We must do better, children are suffering and are almost twice as likely to have a mental disorder from living in these government institutions.
No one in this world wants to be lonely especially a child.