A Girl In too Many Roles

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She must cook!

She must Clean!

She must be pretty but not too pretty!

She must be in shape but not show her body.

She must be young but not too young.

She must be smart but not too smart.

She must indure but not show struggle.

She must trust me even when I’m wrong.

She must wait for me until I’m ready.

Yet what will be her prize for this, pain.

Garnet Thighs Saves Lives

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This is my Fanart of Garnet from Steven Universe.

Now I know this is marketed as a kids show but if you were a fan of cartoons such as The Avatar: The Last Airbender then you will fall in love with this as well.

Garnet is a wonderful character that is shown to be a leader but can also have doubts and doesn’t mind enjoying herself when she wants to. She is well known for her Afro and hips. It is one of the very times I have seen a black character that is beautiful, smart, happy, and has a great relationship with the people around her. I hope to she more characters like this in the future.

Also if you like my fanart please let me know and I will do more in the future. 

Chaos and Beauty

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When you look into my eyes what do you see?

Is it Chaos or Beauty?

Is it Fear or Love?

Is it Death or Life?

The answer is only given to the ones brave enough to seek it. 

 

 

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Is Getting Married important anymore?

5 Reasons getting married is still a thing.

 

The idea of marriage has change over the last few decades as to what is the purpose of it. Now days it seems to be gaslighted as just something to do if you feel like it or it’s just a piece of paper but deep down we all know that isn’t the case. Here is 5 reasons getting married is still a thing.

Sealing the deal

People will try your relationship if they do not see a ring. A Ring is legit just a mark that goes on your hand that will show everyone that you have been taken. It makes it easier for others to understand your relationship is serious. Also if you see that someone is afraid to wear a ring then you will also know if the take you seriously.

Right of Passage

When is the last time you heard someone in their 40’s say they have a boyfriend or girlfriend? Now I guarantee when you read that in your head that it made you fell uncomfortable.  There is nothing wrong with older people dating but, at the same time you can’t help but wonder how 20 years of life later and they still haven’t found love. Falling in love is apart of growing as a person and makes you have a better understanding of life all around. When you get married people view you differently,  they begin to see someone who has mentally matured and thinks of more than themselves.

Benefits

Everyone need some type of health benefits.  There is no way around that, your going to need it and it is expense. Marriage helps you take that to the max and at a better price for you and your family. Why have a whole family and have to have 2 different healthcare plans it is a waste and costly.

Living Together

Marriage can help you build wealth, living together can make bill seen much smaller than they were before. Personal, I have a man that pays all the bills I do come from an old fashion style of living and he was fully aware of this as well.  Divided and conquer is still working, he handles the bills and I make a house a home.  Now I know that is not what everyone wants however it does work.

Death

One day the person you love will die, you are making the arrangements and then it hits you. You have no power in this situation. Because you have decided marriage was not important now everything is out of your hands when they die. You have not control unless they happen to make a great will.

 Overall, do not let the news and media fool you marriage is an important part of life if you truly love some one because if you don’t it will cause pain later on.

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